Love at First Sight


The first diary that I opened was the love diary of Princess Sita.  On the inside cover was a drawing of Sita with her beloved husband Rama and their two sons, Lava and Kush.  They looked like a blissfully happy family.  As I began to read her diary, I couldn't put it down.  I turned page after page, realizing that Sita was a strong, admirable woman who had experienced an amazing love that was tested in many ways.  The first page I read brought me to tears.  It was the most beautiful story of love at first sight I have ever heard.

Marriage

Dear Diary,

 Today was the best day of my life! As I was sitting outside on my balcony enjoying the fresh air and talking to my attendants, the most remarkable man passed under me.  He was dressed in royal blue with gold accents on his waist and wrists.  He was followed by two men who were probably his guards.  By looking at his body, I doubt he would need guards though. Just before he passed by, he looked up at me.  Our eyes met for an instant, and it was love at first-sight.  It was undeniable. 

I could tell he was in a rush to get somewhere, though, because he didn't stop to ask my name.  As soon as he was gone, I felt ill.  How would I find this man who had pierced my heart with one glance?  Would I ever see him again? So many worries ran through my head.  I got light headed and rushed to my bed.  My attendants were worried.  They tried to calm me down with hot tea, a back massage, and even by singing, but nothing worked.  Finally in desperation they sent for my father, King Janaka, to check on me.  However, they did not return with my father, but instead insisted that I come with them to his throne. 

I declined, saying I felt far too ill to walk about, but when they told me that a prince had finally bent the bow that Shiva had given to my father, I instantly felt alive again.  This feat was extraordinary because no man had been able to bend it in years. This was significant to me because my father had declared that the first man to bend Shiva's bow would be worthy to receive my hand in marriage!  I was so nervous and excited at the same time walking to my father that I almost threw up.  The man who finally bent the bow MUST have been my love! It had to be! But what if it wasn't? Would I be forced to forget about that man who had passed under my balcony and pretend to love another man the rest of my life?

All of these questions raced through my mind as I approached my father. I remember his exact words: "Princess Sita, today is a bittersweet day to me.  I do not want to let my beautiful daughter go, but I'm proud to say I have finally found the best suitor for you.  His name is Prince Rama of Ayodhya."

Just then in walked the man who had stolen my heart earlier that day.  "Sita, I present to you your husband, Prince Rama."  I was breathless. The gods had found favor with me today! As we saw each other for the second time, I knew this man would be able to make me happy for the rest of my life. 

We spent the most beautiful night together in my palace. He told me of his adventures conquering demons with his loyal brother Lakshmana on their trek to Mithila where he found me.  He is an amazing man, strong, smart, and passionate.  No day with him will be boring. I am such a lucky woman!

Yours Truly,
Sita



Don't we all wish we could have such an amazing love at first sight experience as Sita?  Retelling her story almost made me cry again; it's so beautiful.  We are all envious of her right now, but by the end of her diary entries we may not be so envious.  As you will read in my next stories, Sita's life is not always this perfect love story.  This amazing love that she found is tested numerous times.  Let's move on to Sita's next story to get a better understanding.



 
Author's Note: My hope is that as you read through Sita's deepest thoughts you were able to feel the excitement, passion, and love she felt.  When I read this story in Narayan's The Ramayana I loved it.  It was the first love story in the book and after reading about all of the battles Rama had experienced it was a nice change of pace.  I enjoyed reading it so much that I chose to develop my storybook around it.  I loved the image of Sita watching Rama walk toward her from her balcony and their eyes meeting and passion racing through them.  It's exactly what all women dream of experiencing.

Approaching Sita's story in the form of a diary allowed me to really develop her emotions.  I was able to express thoughts that she had that wouldn't have been possible without using a diary format.  I also chose to use a diary frame tale because, from my experience, they have been the most entertaining storybooks to read.  I think it is the thought that you are prying into some one's personal space, trespassing where no one is to go that makes them engaging. 


Cover Page

Introduction

  True Test of Love


Bibliography:
Buck, William.  Ramayana.  University of California Press.  1976.
Narayan, R.K.  The Ramayana A Shortened Modern Prose Version of the Indian Epics.  Penguin Group, 1972.

Image Information: The Marriage of Rama and Sita. Weblink.
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