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In the early months of their excile, Rama, Sita and Lakshmana journey to the Vindya Hills to get farther way from their home in Ayodha. Leaving Chitrakuta, they find the earthly home of the great rishi Atri and his wife Anasuya. The older couple welcomes the travelers into their hermitage. Atri entertains the men, while Anasuya visits with Sita.
The
romance of Atri and Anasuya influences the Indian Epics in many
ways. The
story of A
Blessed Marriage is a modern twist at the longstanding
relationship and influence of Atri and Anasuya. The Bedtime
Ritual
compares young blossoming love to mature love that as passed the test
of time. My
analysis
follows these two
creative retellings.

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The perfect wife. The envy of the Women’s Ashram Association. That is how everyone knew Anasuya Rishi. She was always well dressed and had a recipe for baked beans that was a favorite at all the potlucks. Moreover, she was so chaste that she didn’t even use a microwave. Everyone desired to be like her. Especially Parvati, Laxmi, and Saraswati. Anasuya simply desired a family.
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What
makes love last?
My grandparents celebrated their 50th wedding
anniversary
just before he passed away two summers ago.
At the time I still felt like a newlywed, even though I had been
married
for five years and was expecting my second child. All
of us grandchildren and great
grandchildren flooded our beloved grandparents with questions about
their life
together. It was a fascinating tale of
true love and real heroes. Two people
who together survived the great depression, the loss of a child, and
a devastating
fire.
In The Bedtime Ritual, Atri and Anasuya are
loosely
based on my grandparents. In my story Atri
calls her “Ana” as a
nickname because my grandfather referred to my grandmother IdaBelle as
“Belle.” I like these minor
relationships to compare and contrast to the main relationship of Rama
and
Sita. These supporting characters offer meaning and depth, while
sometimes
providing comedy or a break from the intense drama unfolding. Even thought Rama and Sita’s relationship
spans the threshold of time, they are new in this life together and
benefit
from the wisdom of the sages.

Buck’s version
depicts Sita as worldlier than Narayan’s
version. Narayan sends her into exile in tree bark, Buck sends her
with
fine
clothes and jewelry.
All that is
mentioned in Narayan’s brief description of the meeting is that Anasuya
gives Sita
all of her jewelry and clothes. Buck
gives much more history on the rishi couple- Atri is one of the stars
of
the constellation the Great Bear- and their encounter with the exiled
trio, detailing the conversations and the gifts.
Anasuya reminds me of many people in my life. Someone I can turn to for advice on marriage and parenting because she has survived life's challenges. A rock foundation. She doesn’t judge. At the time, I don’t think Sita realizes the real jewel is Anasuya, not the ornaments she wears around her neck. It took me a while to recognize these people in my own life. As a character Anasuya is an older, wiser contrast to the young, naïve Sita. She is also a mother figure to the orphan baby raised by King Janaka. Furthermore, she embodies the value of female friends to support a romantic relationship.
The story of The
Blessed Marriage
shows the long-standing influence of two hearts entwined. The
inspiration came from my internet research. Atri and Anasuya are
worshipped by Hindus for their chasitity and fidelity. Their
devotion to each other results in two boons from the Hindu
Trinity. Their united wish begets their divine son Dattatreya.
A close connection exists between a loving, married couple and their
children. The nature and character of the parents influences the
moral fiber of the offspring. In this case, Dattetreya bears the
attributes of the three gods Shiva, Vishnu, and Brahma. Their
son, or grandson by some accounts,
Durvasas
is a sage whose blessings and curses play a role in the later epic The
Mahabharata.

Bibliography:
Buck, William. Ramayana. Berkeley:
University of California Press,
1976. pages 133-135.
Narayan, R.K. Ramayana. New
York: Penguin Books,
1972. pages 65-66.
Anasuya-
The Chaste Wife of Atri.
Dattatreya
Principle.
Rama at
Hermitage of Sage Atri
Ursa
Major
Dattatreya
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